Things To Do When The Guy You Love Doesn't Love You

Women are typically the victim of this and has to do with feminism for the most part.


There have been cases, when the guy is not just interested in you, no matter what you do (perhaps you're not up to his tatse) in such cases, If you go on to tell him what you feel, he could use it against you, or try to get along out of pity, or worst still distance himself from you and kill your ego!!!

This is what to do

Find a way to bring him close as a friend! Make him your friend (platonic) do not tell him anything! Just under the friendship level, allow it that way; If he really feels something for you he 'kll let it loose. But iF he doesn't he won't say nothing, and at that point I'll advice u to let it stay that way.

The thing with men, is that, If we see what we like we go for it (for d bold ones) for the not so bold, they look for a common ground where they can start from or somehow get to you...

The best thing to do is just try to do things with friends or whoever to help get your mind off of it and if you mean anything to him he would've tried to keep contact. maybe u shouldnt waste your time. wait for the right guy to find you then you will know he the one. 



unrequited love hurts a lot but you'll get over it when you meet someone whom you like and who likes you back . it just takes time and patience. 

it's just life. I'm pretty sure there are guys who are crazy about you that you don't fancy. And won't fancy in a 1000 lifetimes. Not for any distinct reason just the way it is. So, suck it up and move on. Your man's out there somewhere, be patient

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